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Listen Now! Heather & Jack recorded radio broadcasts: 9/23/2006 |
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“We are sculpting a new kind of marriage based on today's desire for quality in life.” Through their
Designer Marriage program, Heather and Jack |
1. Knowing Our Unique Needs 2. Emotional Intimacy 3. Deep Friendship 4. Romantic Partnership 5. Mature Love 6. Relationship Styles |
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| This couples’
heartfelt, expert and funny facilitation brings out your best abilities
for having the two most important aspects of an intimate relationship: 1) deep friendship and 2) romantic bonding. |
| 1. Knowing
Our Unique Needs examines your original relationship script from your
family traditions and helps you clarify the basis of your personality style
with its core needs and values in an intimate relationship. Using the Carlile
Marriage Model, you’ll assess what you need in order to fill all areas
of your marriage inside and outside of the relationship. |
| 2. Emotional
Intimacy requires a passionate and respectful attitude. Emotional intelligence
and self-regulation are necessary for the trust and vulnerability possible
in a mature relationship. Unregulated emotions, conflict avoidance and toxic
negativity can destroy intimacy. This class gives guidelines and descriptions
to avoid the five eschelons of frustration, how to fight nice and how to
use anger as a constructive force. |
| 3. Deep
Friendship is built on communication and familiarity. In this section,
we discuss the importance of valuing each others’ hopes and dreams and the
paramount skill of listening. We learn how the Bunny and Rabbit Ya’But Game
sabotages communication and what to do instead. We provide agendas for marriage
meetings and teach how to replace defense patterns with safe complaints. |
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| 4. Romantic
Partners are masters of admiration, affection and adoration. They are
skilled with the art of romance by having skills such as soothing each other,
knowing their partners love languages and creating special dates. We teach
the chemistry of sex and how to avoid accumulating the detriments to a lasting
and expanding love life. |
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5. Mature
Love, at its highest possible level of intensity, requires vulnerability
which comes only with adulthood and authenticity. Romantic love expressed
with spiritual reverence and complete honesty is for adults only because
of the requisite deep self-knowledge, good-will and unconditional acceptance.
This class teaches the seven practices of love for grown-ups. |
| 6. Designing
Your Marriage is a direct expression of your unique relationship style.
Here we learn how romantic best friends date, have a mutually-satisfying
division of labor and are in accord as parents. One of the chief art forms
in a Designer Marriage is in creating your special roles and rituals. We
help you cultivate your traditions and develop your social style. |
| Join us for
Designer Marriage and find out how
easy and fun it is for the two of you to enhance your relationship by redesigning
it magnificently. |
| Dates:
Six Friday Nights, June 16 through July 21, 2006 Time: 7:00 pm Location: Unity Church of Dallas Cost: $20 suggested love offering To Enroll: Call 214-636-5889 Childcare Provided with Pre-Registration |
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Heather and Jack Waldenmaier live what they teach. They are both accomplished presenters. Heather is in private practice as a marriage counselor; she is also a professional speaker and corporate trainer. Jack Waldenmaier, former professor of music at Southern Methodist University, continues to write and produce commercial as well as classical compositions. Their daily celebration of their own marriage and their commitment to helping couples have happy relationships marks their presentations with enthusiastic energy and playful humor. |
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The Waldenmaiers live in Plano, Texas where they enjoy their three grown children and daughter-in-law, great friends, entertaining, Argentine tango, the fine arts, cruises and international travel. |
| DesignerMarriage.com
Jack Waldenmaier, DMA Heather Carlile Waldenmaier, MA, LPC |
| Designer
Marriage 1701 N. Collins Blvd., Suite 126 Richardson, TX 75080 214-636-5889 Customer Comment Hotline: 800-837-4260 (or 214-493-6553) |
Marriage Counseling Heather Carlile, M.A., L.P.C.
Royalty Free Music Jack Waldenmaier, D.M.A.